A holistic, heart-felt approach to sex + relationship
Beneath all the false layers of “self” that have been layered on top of us throughout the course of life, via trauma, conditioning, and the projections and expectations of others, lies our unshakable core essence, the light that can never be broken or snuffed out.
This work is simply a stripping away of these layers, and coming home to the truth of who you are so you can live your most fulfilling life.
I work with a non-dual approach, through the lenses of Tantra and Taoism (ancient Eastern approaches to life and spirituality), where we embrace both the mud and lotus; shadow and light; sacred love-making and electric edge-pushing taboos; depth and playfulness.
This is a judgment-free zone, and every part of you is welcome here.
I’m Sureya Leonara
Welcome to my world, where sex, spirituality, play, passion, purpose, and healing all get to play together in one place, in all of their gorgeously imperfect, muddy, messy humanness.
Are you ready to make love with life in everything that you do?
As someone who has lost and reclaimed my libido multiple times over due to chronic illness and burnout, I have walked the painful yet empowering path of alchemizing obstacles into opportunities, medicine and aliveness, and I fully believe in the resilience and miracle-making magic that lies within each human.
I’m insatiably curious with a passion for portaling deep into the depths of my clients and people in my life– understanding what makes them tick, what makes them come alive, what calls forth their most unhinged essence that they are here to beam into the world.
I’m a quirky, outside-of-the-box thinker, who’s taken a very unconventional path to get to where I am today and do the work I do (which I love with every fiber of my being). I get nerdy and obsessive about my passions and am constantly sinking my teeth into learning more and honing my craft.
I’m a straight shooter and clear mirror who will lovingly call you on your shit, as well as reflect to you your radiance and power.
I have a kink for drawing out the dynamic wholeness of each human; finding the humor in every corner of this wild reality we live in; and sucking the marrow from each of life’s lessons and experiences.
Accountability, determination, and curiosity turn me on. Working with clients who won’t settle for mediocre in life lights me up. Is this you?
Let’s get to know each other better.
Happy Clients
“I am brimming with excitement to meet my lover again in a whole new way—with a deeper sense of reverence... a greater confidence in myself and in us... an understanding of his body and his needs... a more embodied connection with my own... and the tools to support us to integrate these keys...
Sureya’s wisdom is like honey that pours through and seals any gaps in connection (that we may not even realized we had). Tonight I learned some of the most important pieces of information anyone has ever shared with me about relationship, that finally debunked the mystery of why it can be so challenging to understand men.
My level of compassion, patience, openness and acceptance increased almost as much as my excitement to crawl into bed with my lover and learn, listen and adore his everything.
Sureya’s wisdom is the perfect balance of esoteric and practical, spiritual and grounded; her embodied approach and relatability makes this experience accessible for people from all walks of life.
If you are on the fence, just do it. it’ll change your life—and not just your sex life.”
“Working with Sureya completely changed my life ... Previously it was so hard to work through the fear of talking to someone I was interested in, dance with them, or share what I truly felt ... Sureya helped me learn several practices to cultivate my sexual energy and enjoy the best sex of my life ... Less than a year after beginning Sureya’s program, I am happily married to the love of my life, having amazing sex, and fulfilling our dreams together.”
“I can now get to non-ejaculatory orgasms within a minute of self-pleasuring, and can have them over and over again for at least thirty minutes. It’s been a really awesome experience, they feel absolutely incredible. I’ve found I can do this multiple times a day if I want to because I don’t feel depleted at all ... I don’t know why no one taught me this 50 years ago. My wife and I agree that this has been life-changing for me and also for us.”
“Before this course I didn’t know what to do. I had been addicted to porn for over 18 years, all of my relationships had failed due to some sort of sexual inadequacy, and my sense of confidence was gone. After being enrolled for just a couple weeks I can honestly say that it has forever changed my life. I have discovered new confidence and passion within myself. I have discovered parts of myself within me that I never knew existed, I never knew how to actually love myself before and give myself what I needed. I believe in myself for the first time in a very long time, maybe ever! I am so grateful for Sureya and for finding her course.”
“Sureya is a wonderful and lovely practitioner. I’m a psychotherapist working in Boulder and I have referred a number of my clients to Sureya. She embodies wisdom and has excellent group facilitation skills. Definitely go and see her if you’re curious! ”
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